Blackmore Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Its not like I discover this by now, hell no, but listen...Sometimes you begin to think about the situations and the things become more complicated than clear. Just today I was having a drink with several people because one of our female collegaue were leaving the firm. Before that, she invited, personally, all that folks, include me, so its not like I am really that important or anything, however not everyone were welcome after all, especially that we are not worked at the same department. To make this story short I will say this. When I talked to her, lately, you having about one thing, but if I were looking in her eyes, I just saw something different...And that different make me wonder, why oh why is this happenning? Not that I feel unnatural, no, just, if the mother nature gave us this possibility of attraction, why the hell we must resist it all the time:confused: This is not the first time I have such situation and asking myself, how the hell you guys handle this? Or maybe I am in midlifecrisis, but on the other hand it wasnt that different before, so am I crazy? Dont get me wrong, I do love my wife, but the question isnt about cheating, its like about instincts we have. Instincts that make us look to other women and also like them, sexually or not, but still... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBLoudG20 Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 I think you just need to go through puberty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Icarium Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 I've had that part of my brain cauterized. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
postjack Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 i came here for dating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackmore Posted November 25, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo. And I like my puberty, so, shoot me:cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riceboy Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 i came here for dating. Jack you crack me up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBLoudG20 Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 i came here for dating. win Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hopstretch Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Dew eet! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dusty Chalk Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo. And I like my puberty, so, shoot me:cool:You sound conflicted.I think you just need to go through puberty.I concur. And: win. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungrych Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Well, I think you mis the point, I am not looking for anything, its just there, all around you and to ignore is nothing else than lying to yourself, imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Augsburger Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 I think it is time for you to get a new amp and forget about such nonsense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torpedo Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 Middle age crisis? Seven year itch? Whatever it is, if you love your wife, kill your instincts and have that part of your brain cauterized. It's not about lying yourself, it's about being able to keep the things you appreciate safe and clean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aardvark baguette Posted November 25, 2008 Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 A site run by headphone nerds is probably not the ideal place to seek advice on such a thing edit: oh who am I kidding, just a get a magazine and go to town. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hopstretch Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Middle age crisis? Seven year itch? Whatever it is, if you love your wife, kill your instincts and have that part of your brain cauterized. It's not about lying yourself, it's about being able to keep the things you appreciate safe and clean. Just tell him there's a perfectly reasonable medical explanation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knuckledragger Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genetic Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Its not like I discover this by now, hell no, but listen...Sometimes you begin to think about the situations and the things become more complicated than clear. Yep I did an internet search about the best snowtires and you are perfectly right.... Amicalement PS. If you need a little help with balancing your hormones just think about her/him/whatever... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aerius Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 You're a guy. Regardless of your relationship or marital status, if you didn't have the hots for other women every now and then, you need to get your testosterone levels checked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepak Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Yes we need that smiley added Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackmore Posted November 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Thanks guys/girls. When I read all that posts it makes me laugh, cos sense of humor is one of those things that make our life bit easier. And yes, we sure need that smiley;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knuckledragger Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Yes we need that smiley added Um. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boomana Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Blackmore, you just now figuring this stuff out? The rest of youz, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackmore Posted November 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Nope, I just want to talk about it, thats all. Ahh, never mind... Blackmore, you just now figuring this stuff out? The rest of youz, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torpedo Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Nope, I just want to talk about it, thats all. Ahh, never mind... Feel free to keep talking mate, if that helps... Being a male of the human species is no big deal regarding procreation instincts. You can't fight feeling them, but you need to learn to control them if you don't want to convert your whole life in a terrible mess. I had the hope that things would improve with years, but looks like they get worse It was nice being an adolescent hahahahaha however I think I'm happier now... gotta think about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBLoudG20 Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Feel free to keep talking mate, if that helps... Being a male of the human species is no big deal regarding procreation instincts. You can't fight feeling them, Salt Peter Also, the last thing this world needs is offspring from me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torpedo Posted November 26, 2008 Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Salt Peter Also, the last thing this world needs is offspring from me. I'm afraid the current world doesn't need more offspring from anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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