Clearly he has it Dan, otherwise it would have updated in some fashion now. You will see "Arrived at FedEx location" as soon as they have it. Until then all he's done is fill out a form online and maybe printed a fracken label.
I'd ask him to either board the f'ing plane with it or stop answering countless emails/phone calls/playing online poker or whatever he's doing instead of shipping your package. Seriously, it'd take what, a maximum of an hour to take it down to FedEx or wait, he could just pick up the damn phone and have them come pick it up for $15 and save himself countless hours of aggravation, plane tickets, bad will, annoyed customers, etc., etc. Trust me, he'll love it when they pick it up, it's everything he ever wanted. Jesus H. Christ this is not rocket science.