I think most tv stands are fairly stable. I guess it's a matter of height vs depth and width, generally. Most of the stands sold at costco, for example, I think would stand up to a lot. But also, you're going to have it up against a wall, right? You could just put a bracket on each corner to hold it to the wall, or to each foot to hold it to the floor.
Also, you could mount the TV to the wall, just above the "tv stand". That's what we did.