I don't envy you, boomana. I always remember a friend of the family who was a mental health nurse when I was much younger. They used to constantly check that they were the one with the keys, just to help keep themselves sane......
And your aggression training sounds exactly like what police friends go through. Don't use the taser, don't use the baton, don't pull the gun, don't touch the bad guy - just bring them in on the strength of kind but firm words. Ridiculous!
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Me? Same thing I've been doing every day this week. Trying to prepare a seminar for a very important conference, without having the final data yet. Goddamn research assistants - would be quicker to do the whole bloody thing myself