It has to be a laptop, right? You sometimes (and hope to return to) DJing out, right? So it can't be a Mac Mini or mini desktop (+ keyboard + mouse + mousepad + portable monitor), right?
Yeah, I don't know what to tell you, I tend to stick to the tried and true. So I ended up pre-ordering an Asus.
I've been following the Framework laptops. I wouldn't put a whole lot of credence into his investment, though -- that's more of a vote of confidence in their business model of perpetual upgradeability, than it is in the machine itself.
That said, I do kinda really dig that modular, perpetually upgradeable platform. Tres cool.
And having used both Windows and MacOS, I would suspect you will be reminded of things with the Windows OS that will frustrate you inordinately, that you haven't thought of, yet.