Not asr! It was the guy who runs the site, Jim somebody. Very creepy. It was the first time in maybe 15 years that I had to ask my guy friends to step in and protect me more or less. There's a pic in the impressions thead from that meet where there are too many of us at one table and I'm wedged in with Mike, John, Matt, and Stephen. There's a reason for that. Poor Gene took the worst duty, though, and had to listen to him talk about himself for over an hour at the far end of another table. Major ass, and the kind that thinks when you tell him to finally fuck off, which I did, you're just being feisty and really want want even more. He was spooky, and I rarely get that feeling from guys. Ugh.