A lot of bigotry used to be considered funny by those spouting it. They say one in ten Americans are gay. I believe that's probably fairly accurate, so you could have just offended 10% of our members before reaching half a dozen posts.
I don't see that in your profile, so I'm going to assume you were smart enough to remove it already. That's a move in the right direction at least. It's not that we don't have a sense of humor, we do, boy do we! We've even been known to make racial jokes about specific members. The difference is we know those members very well, and they know the joke was made in jest. Kind of an anti racial remark in reality, because it's really wrapped in respect and admiration. I'm not sure if you'll have the maturity to decipher that kind of humor, and know how to respond accordingly, but I'd love to be shown otherwise. We're nothing at all like Head-Fi here. We're a tight knit group of friends that like to hang out online together. We sometimes even bring up the subject of headphones, but it's not mandatory. It's tough to get into certain clicks in school, I'm sure you're aware of that. It's really no different here. We'll be watching you closely, and if you don't fit our idea of a Head Caser, we'll show no mercy. I'd highly recommend you just hang out for a while, study our posting and learn about us before you jump in and post yourself. Good luck.