I had not met your Mother Al, but judging from the job she did of making such a fine person out of the Son I have met, and have come to consider a good friend, I know she must have been a really wonderful gal.
If some of us do get to go to a better place when we pass, then I have no doubts that your Mother has a place of honor there, and will be greeted with all the love she had surely given in life.
May your Father weather these days ahead as well as can be hoped for, and may your whole family get through this as best they can. Please give Claire, Sophie and Alden my condolences. I hate to think of them hurting, and don't be afraid to shed some tears yourself Al. As a poofter it's the best advice I can give. I cry at sad TV commercials, and I've always treasured my sensitive nature. It always makes me feel better.
I'm Going to have a beer tonight with my steak dinner, just to be able to raise a glass to your Mother!