Dusty, I have never considered you to be homophobic or bigoted in any way. I've known you now for several years, and it would be impossible for me to think anything like that. I completely understood your use of the gay marriage scenario. What hurt me was solely this sentence... That seemed very much directed at me personally, given the context of the post, and now your acknowledgement of such. The use of the word "sicken" in its context seems to me more than generally argumentative, and very personal. Firstly I'm still not sure you really understand my values, as up to this point you seem to want to place me fully on one side of the issue. I am not fully on either side, and I think my posts reflect that. I don't know what I've done to offend you, but it seems to me that I have. I'm truly sorry if I have, as that was never my intent. Again I'm confused. I've looked back at all of my posts in this thread, and I don't see the words "allowed to". In any case it's no longer important to me. I'm a big boy, I'll get over it.