My worst nightmare... having to wrap presents. One of my greatest blessings is that Anne generally doesn't mind doing this and hasn't gotten mad at me for not helping, ever, even a little bit. She's also seen my wrapping prowess, or lack thereof, so maybe that's why.
CJ, really sorry for the suckage of that project gone bad. Wish I could help, but I don't have the knowledge. I do want to say, though, that I don't see where Dan was bullying you. He may not have been as helpful as you'd have liked, and he has a very direct approach, which is his usual, but I didn't see any bullying. It seemed to me that he was trying to help out. I hope you work out the problems in your project, either way. Just keep it in perspective, bro'. I remember when I was in the middle of med school, the stress level and unrealistic expectations of everyone directly surrounding me sometimes got the better of me...