I agree Mike.
I bought 3 difference VNC apps and this is how I rank them:
iTeleport > Desktop Connect >> iSSH (for VNC)
The iSSH is very nice for SSH though and I am very happy with that part of the program. It is slightly easier to connect using Desktop Connect than iTeleport but once connected, iTeleport seems to work a little better.
As for File Managing software, I decided to get GoodReader in addition to ReaddleDocs. My ranking:
ReaddleDocs >>>> GoodReader
I was able to easily upload a large directory of pdfs with ReaddleDocs via Wifi. I still haven't been able to upload more than a file at a time with GoodReader. I think one may be able to do this but I gave up and deleted GoodReader before I figured it out. I also didn't like the looks of GoodReader.